Actress Jada Pinkett Smith wrote this on her Facebook wall yesterday “ It hurts when we are made to feel as if we don’t matter . Whether its having been abandoned by a parent or abandoned by an old friend or lover. Nothing hurts more then to have been told you were or promised to be cared for or even deeply loved only then to be treated like a stranger . Love is not a feeling , its responsibility , action . Know this …….You matter! If you have made anyone in your life feel this way …… reach out to them today and let them know they matter . You will heal yourself as well as someone else you promised ...